Describe a time when you told your friend an important truth
  • Who your friend is?

  • What was the truth?

  • What your friend’s reaction was?

  • Explain why it was important for you to tell the truth to your friend.

I believe in the saying ‘Honesty is the best policy’ and try to follow it as much as I can. However, there are times when circumstances do not allow me to be completely forthright and upfront. I faced such a situation last year with my best friend, Alicia who lives in London currently. We went to school together and lived on the same street when we were kids. We planned to pursue higher education in London together but woefully, I was not able to go. I applied for an education loan which did not get approved, and I felt dejected to inform her that I could not tag along with her. I told her I had to stay back to attend some family business and that I would enrol for the next semester. Anyway, I finally resolved to tell her the truth a month later and explained it to her in a way that she would not get upset. 

While she was dismayed that I hid something of paramount importance from her, she was still understanding and assured me of a better future. She further advised me about various work opportunities in London which I could get as I have about four years of experience working in an IT firm so that my dream of living in London could come true. 

I never lied to her before, but it was essential to hide this truth so that she would not change her decisions because of me. I felt guilty about hiding the truth, so I came clean about it because I respect her and trust more than anyone. I think it's important to be honest in all kinds of relationships to be able to grow stronger together. 

 

Vocabulary:

  1. Circumstances – conditions, situations
  2. Forthright – outspoken
  3. Woefully – unfortunately
  4. Dejected – dispirited
  5. Dismay – distress caused by something unexpected


Part 3 Follow Up - Questions & Answers

1. Do you think we should always tell the truth?

In my view, it is better to be honest even though it hurts someone than sugar coating harsh realities with lies for temporary pleasure. Although it might create a difficult situation, it would not lead to a dire circumstance where we need to lie again to cover up previously told lies.

2. How do you know when others are telling the truth?

It is easy to judge if someone is being honest by studying their facial expressions and body language. For instance, when people are telling the truth, they maintain eye contact effortlessly and do not fumble with their words. In addition, they do not contradict themselves which often happens when lying.

3. Do you think it is important to win the game or follow the rules?

I consider winning the game unethically leaves an individual with a hollow experience. Abiding by rules is as important as attaining a victory. It would be a wholesome occurrence to win something that you have worked hard for by following the guidelines and limits set.

4. Sometimes, people should tell lies. Do you agree?

I disagree with this statement. Although some situations may compel people to lie, it could have a drastic impact on the kids who look up to their elders. Some even become serial liars who manipulate others to get what they want.